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  • What’s your biggest dream?

    What’s your biggest dream?

    To write a book worthy of a Pulitzer Prize.

    Not because I need an award. Awards gather dust. They eventually become another object on a shelf.

    What I hope for is something quieter.

    I hope to write something that outlives me. A book that someone opens years from now and still finds truth in. A book that reminds a stranger they are not alone, or helps someone understand a history they never knew they carried.

    Most of all, I hope my words become proof that I was here.

    That I lived. That I paid attention. That I loved enough to write it all down.

    I hope that someday, someone I’ve never met will turn the final page, sit in the silence for a moment, and begin asking questions. Who was this man? What kind of life shaped him? Why did these stories matter so much to him? What was he trying to leave behind?

    If they dig deeply enough into the words, I hope they’ll find the answers. Not because I ever wrote about myself directly, but because every honest sentence carries a little of its author within it.

    Long after my voice has gone silent, I hope the stories remain. Not to make me unforgettable, but to leave behind a small piece of light for whoever comes next.

    If that journey one day leads to a Pulitzer Prize, I would receive it with deep gratitude. But the prize has never been the dream.

    The dream has always been to leave something behind that time cannot easily erase.

    Kyle J. Hayes

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  • Things That Shape Us

    Things That Shape Us

    I have often wondered whether we become who we are because of something already inside us, or because of everything life places in our path.

    The older I get, the more I believe our experiences shape us.

    Before we learn to trust, someone has to give us a reason to.

    Before we become cautious, someone usually gives us one of those too.

    Every conversation, every disappointment, every unexpected kindness leaves something behind. We carry those moments longer than we realize. They become the lens through which we see the world, often without our permission.

    Our experiences influence who we trust. They affect how we speak to strangers, how quickly we forgive, and how willing we are to believe in people we have just met. They determine the places that feel like home and the ones we never want to return to. They shape what makes us feel safe, what makes us nervous, and what makes us hopeful.

    Even the smallest moments matter.

    A teacher who believed in us when no one else did.

    A friend who stayed.

    A parent who listened.

    A stranger who offered kindness on a day we desperately needed it.

    Just as those moments shape us for the better, so do the painful ones. Betrayal teaches caution. Loss teaches gratitude. Failure teaches resilience. Heartbreak can teach compassion, because once you’ve carried that kind of weight, you begin to recognize it in someone else.

    That doesn’t mean we are trapped by our experiences.

    I believe we always have a choice.

    We can decide that someone else’s bitterness will not become our own. We can choose to offer patience in response to impatience. We can become the kindness we wished someone had shown us years ago.

    Maybe that is where character is truly found.

    Not in pretending our experiences never happened, but in deciding what we will do with them.

    Because every experience leaves its fingerprint on us.

    Some become scars.

    Some become wisdom.

    And if we’re fortunate, the hardest moments don’t simply change who we are.

    They help us become someone worth becoming.

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  • Are You a Lifelong Learner?

    Are You a Lifelong Learner?

    The answer is yes.

    An easy yes.

    I have been learning my entire life, although I am not entirely sure what the question means by “learning.”

    Does it mean school?

    Books?

    Experience?

    Mistakes?

    Because if mistakes count, I may be one of the most educated people alive.

    As a boy, I loved books.

    I was always reading something. Anything I could get my hands on.

    Most of it was science fiction and fantasy, which meant I knew a great deal about dragons, distant planets, magical weapons, alien civilizations, and saving the universe.

    This knowledge has been surprisingly useless during tax season.

    Still, I was learning.

    Books taught me that there were worlds beyond the one I could see. They introduced me to strange places, impossible creatures, difficult choices, and people who were usually expected to save everyone despite having almost no adult supervision.

    At the time, I did not think of reading as education.

    I thought I was escaping.

    But sometimes escaping into a book is how we return to the world with a better understanding of it.

    Stories taught me about courage.

    Friendship.

    Power.

    Fear.

    Sacrifice.

    They also taught me that accepting mysterious jewelry from strangers is usually a bad idea.

    Then came my teenage years, when much of my education moved from books to horror movies.

    I watched far too many of them.

    Still, they taught me several practical lessons.

    If you are camping and someone suddenly goes missing, leave.

    If you hear strange noises in the woods, leave faster.

    Do not investigate.

    Do not split up.

    Do not say, “I’ll be right back.”

    And under no circumstances should you stop in the nearby town to explain what happened.

    The townspeople already know.

    They have always known.

    They will stare at you silently from the diner while someone behind the counter slowly wipes the same glass.

    Just get in your car and go.

    If the car will not start, then unfortunately, the movie has already decided your future.

    The most important thing I learned, however, was that the more you know, the more you realize how much you do not know.

    This was unfortunate news for me.

    I had a rather inflated opinion of myself when I was younger.

    I was confident.

    Very confident.

    The kind of confident that can only exist when a person has not yet encountered enough information to become confused.

    I thought I knew almost everything.

    Not because I had learned everything, of course.

    I simply had not yet discovered how much everything included.

    Then I kept reading.

    I kept watching.

    I kept listening.

    I kept living.

    And slowly, the world became larger.

    Every answer introduced another question.

    Every subject revealed ten more subjects I had never considered.

    Every person knew something I did not.

    This was humbling.

    Annoying, but humbling.

    I look back at that cocky boy now and laugh.

    Not because he was foolish.

    At least not entirely.

    He was simply standing at the edge of a very large ocean, holding a cup of water, convinced he had discovered the sea.

    There is something beautiful about that kind of confidence.

    There is also something dangerous about it.

    The older I become, the more I understand that learning is not about reaching a place where no one can correct you.

    It is about listening to people whose experiences are different from your own.

    It is changing your mind when new information gives you a good reason to do so.

    That last one can be difficult.

    People become attached to their opinions.

    Sometimes we carry an opinion for so long that it begins to feel like a family member.

    Not necessarily a family member we like.

    But one we feel obligated to defend at gatherings.

    Lifelong learning requires us to let some of those old opinions go.

    It requires curiosity.

    Humility.

    And the willingness to accept that the younger version of ourselves occasionally had no idea what he was talking about.

    I still love books.

    I still love discovering something new.

    I still enjoy the feeling of reading a sentence that makes me stop and reconsider something I thought I understood.

    But I no longer think learning is a journey toward knowing everything.

    That sounds exhausting.

    Learning is simply remaining teachable.

    It is keeping the windows open.

    It is allowing new ideas to enter, while occasionally asking the old ones to gather their things and leave.

    The older I get, the less interested I am in being the smartest person in the room.

    Mostly because the smartest person in the room usually knows enough not to announce it.

    I would rather stay curious.

    I would rather keep reading.

    I would rather keep learning.

    And somewhere inside me, that boy is still holding a science-fiction book, ready to travel to another world.

    The teenager is probably still watching a horror movie and yelling at the screen, “Do not go into the woods.”

    They are both still confident.

    Still curious.

    Still slightly convinced they can save the universe.

    The difference is that now they understand two important things:

    Read the instructions first.

    And if the woods start making strange noises, leave.

    Kyle J. Hayes

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  • If You Could Live Anywhere in the World, Where Would It Be?

    If You Could Live Anywhere in the World, Where Would It Be?

    If I could live anywhere in the world, I would still choose Albuquerque.

    And I am proud to say that.

    I know that might sound strange to some people.

    There are places with bigger skylines.

    Places with more water.

    Places people put on postcards, bucket lists, and travel shows.

    But I have lived in different places around the world, and sometimes the place you choose says more than the place you came from.

    I was raised in the Midwest.

    That part of the country has its own beauty. Its own rhythm. Its own kind of strength. But it is also the home of tornado alley, and I learned early that I do not need the sky turning dark and angry above me to feel alive.

    I am not a fan of hurricanes.

    I am not a fan of earthquakes either.

    Yes, I know New Mexico has earthquakes, but not like the West Coast. And yes, we have monsoon season, but to me, that does not compare to the hurricanes of the East Coast.

    The constant rain of the Northwest would be too much for me.

    Some people need green everywhere.

    Some people need water close enough to hear it.

    I understand that.

    But I have fallen in love with the high desert.

    There is something about the open sky here.

    Something about the mountains standing in the distance like witnesses.

    Something about the way the light changes everything it touches.

    Albuquerque has a quiet honesty to it. It does not try too hard to convince you of what it is. It simply is.

    There is beauty in that.

    There is also the food.

    The kind of food that does not feel like decoration, but memory. Food with heat, history, and personality. Food that tells you where you are before anyone says a word.

    Green chile does that.

    Red chile does that.

    A plate here can feel like a map.

    A reminder that place is not just where you sleep at night. Place is what seasons you. What teaches your tongue. What slows your pace. What makes you look up and notice the sky.

    I did not end up in Albuquerque by accident and stay by mistake.

    I chose it.

    And if I had to choose again, I would choose it again.

    Not because it is perfect.

    No place is.

    But because it fits something in me.

    The high desert has a way of making room for a person. It gives you space to think. Space to breathe. Space to become quieter without becoming smaller.

    And maybe that is what home is after a while.

    Not the place everyone else understands.

    Not the place with the best reputation.

    Not the place that looks most impressive from the outside.

    But the place where your spirit unclenches.

    The place where the weather, the food, the land, and the light begin to feel like part of your own language.

    For me, that place is Albuquerque.

    The high desert.

    The mountains.

    The chile.

    The wide sky.

    The quiet invitation to keep becoming.

    Kyle J. Hayes

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  • Is a Little Chaos Actually Good for Us?

    Is a Little Chaos Actually Good for Us?

    I think a little chaos can be good for us.

    Not the kind that destroys everything and leaves people wounded trying to gather pieces of themselves from the floor.

    But the kind that interrupts comfort.

    The kind that knocks on the door and says, Are you sure this is the best you can do?

    I am someone who likes consistency; it’s comfortable

    I like knowing what works.

    I understand the old saying, “If it’s not broke, don’t fix it.”

    There is wisdom in that. Not everything needs to be touched. Not everything needs to be changed just for the sake of change. Some things are steady because they have earned the right to be steady.

    But sometimes something can work and still not be as good as it could be.

    Sometimes something can be fine and still be slow and inefficient.

    and still holding us back in ways we do not notice, because we have grown comfortable with its shape.

    That is where chaos has its place.

    Chaos reveals things.

    Problems reveal things.

    A disruption can show us where the weak spots are. It can show us what we have been avoiding, what we have outgrown, what we have been calling peace when it was really just familiarity.

    I do not always like that in the moment.

    Most growth does not feel like growth while it is happening.

    Sometimes it feels like frustration.

    Sometimes it feels like an inconvenience.

    Sometimes it feels like being forced to learn something you would not have chosen to learn on your own.

    But afterward, when the dust settles, you can look back and realize the chaos did not come only to disturb you.

    Sometimes it came to sharpen you.

    Sometimes it came to make you more honest.

    Sometimes it came to show you that the way you had always done something was not the only way.

    And maybe not even the best way.

    There is a kind of growth that only comes when life refuses to let us stay too comfortable.

    A little chaos can make us pay attention.

    It can make us adjust.

    It can make us build better systems, ask better questions, and stop confusing survival with success.

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  • What’s the Best Way to Deal with Negative Thoughts?

    What’s the Best Way to Deal with Negative Thoughts?

    The best way to deal with negative thoughts is not to pretend they are not there.

    I know that because I have tried.

    I have tried to push them down.

    Tried to laugh them off.

    I tried to tell myself I was fine when I knew I wasn’t 

    It worked for a while.

    Until it didn’t.

    It could be anything: a word, a look, clutter, anything 

    A moment that should not have mattered as much as it did.

    And suddenly all those buried thoughts, all that hurt, all that anger, all that disappointment came rushing out at once. Sometimes toward someone who did not deserve to receive what I had refused to deal with.

    That is the danger of burying things.

    They do not stay buried.

    Negative thoughts are not always the enemy. Sometimes they are messengers. Sometimes they are telling us there is something we have not faced, something we have not grieved, something we have not forgiven, something we have been carrying too long without admitting how heavy it has become.

    The first step is to deal with them.

    Not while you are in the middle of the fire.

    Not while your emotions are loud and your judgment is clouded.

    But when you can sit with yourself honestly.

    When you can ask, Why did that hurt me? Why did that thought come back? What am I afraid of? What am I still holding onto?

    There is strength in being able to sit alone with your thoughts.

    But there is also wisdom in knowing when not to sit with them alone forever.

    There is nothing wrong with talking to someone.

    For me, it took A counselor.

    Someone safe enough to hear you without making you feel small.

    I know sometimes that sounds like a lot. Especially when you are used to keeping things to yourself. Especially when silence has become a kind of armor. But silence can also become a prison if we never let anything out.

    Negative thoughts are like poison when they stay trapped inside you.

    They change you

    They make love feel suspicious.

    They make peace feel temporary.

    So the best way I know to deal with negative thoughts is to stop pretending they are harmless just because no one else can see them.

    Name them.

    Sit with them.

    Let the emotion pass long enough for you to think clearly.

    Then deal with what is underneath.

    And when it becomes too heavy, talk to someone.

    That is not a weakness.

    That is maintenance of the soul.

    Kyle J. Hayes

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  • What Do You Love Now That You Hated When You Were Younger?

    What Do You Love Now That You Hated When You Were Younger?

    Myself.

    That answer took me a long time to arrive at.

    I would not say I hated myself when I was younger. Hate is too strong a word. But I spent a great deal of my youth wishing I were someone else.

    Even at a young age, I knew I was different.

    Sports were fine, but I was never as good as my older brother. Music was enjoyable, but I could not play an instrument or sing like my other siblings. Everywhere I looked, someone seemed to have a gift that was easier to see than mine.

    My gift was quieter.

    I was smart. I liked books.

    That may not sound like much now, but when you are young, fitting in can feel more important than understanding who you are. I spent years measuring myself against other people and coming up short because I was using the wrong ruler.

    I wanted to be an athlete. The musician. The person everyone noticed when they walked into a room.

    Instead, I was the kid who disappeared into a book.

    What I did not understand then was that the things that made me different were also the things that would shape my life. The hours spent reading taught me how to think. They taught me curiosity. They taught me empathy. They taught me how to sit with an idea long enough to understand it.

    Most importantly, they taught me how to find my own voice.

    Age has a way of settling old arguments. The things we once viewed as flaws often turn out to be foundations.

    Today, I no longer wish I were someone else.

    I am grateful for the quiet kid who loved books. Grateful for the young man who kept reading even when it was not popular. Grateful for the person who eventually learned that fitting in is overrated and that becoming yourself is the greater achievement.

    What do I love now that I disliked when I was younger?

    The answer is simple.

    I love being me.

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  • Who Are You Most Inspired By?

    Who Are You Most Inspired By?

    The person who inspires me most is Fred Rogers.

    Not because he was famous.

    Not because generations of children grew up watching him.

    And not because he seemed to have all the answers.

    He inspires me because he knew exactly who he was and never seemed interested in becoming someone else.

    In a world that often rewards loud voices, he spoke softly.

    In a world that celebrates outrage, he chose kindness.

    In a culture that often mistakes cynicism for wisdom, he believed people were worth caring about.

    What strikes me most is that he did what he truly loved. He found a way to use his gifts in the service of others and then spent decades doing exactly that. He did not seem to chase trends, popularity, or approval. He held fast to his convictions, whether the crowd agreed or not.

    That kind of consistency is rare.

    Many of us spend years trying to figure out who we are. Others know who they are but are afraid to live it. The pressure to fit in, to be accepted, or to be successful on someone else’s terms can be overwhelming.

    Yet he seemed content to walk a different path.

    A path built on the belief that every person has value.

    As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to admire that more than talent, wealth, or fame. The people who leave the deepest mark on the world are often the ones who make others feel seen. They remind us that kindness is not weakness, that compassion requires courage, and that treating people with dignity is a worthy life’s work.

    When I think about the kind of person I hope to become, I don’t think about being the smartest person in the room or the most successful.

    I think about being useful.

    I think about leaving people better than I found them.

    That is why he inspires me.

    Not because he changed the world through power.

    But because he changed it through service, one person at a time.

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  • Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.

    Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.

    I think the beginning of healthy boundaries is true honesty.

    Not the convenient kind.

    Not the softened version we offer because we are tired, afraid, or trying to keep the room from changing temperature.

    True honesty.

    The kind that requires courage because it does not come only from the mouth. It comes from the part of us that is tired of pretending peace and silence are the same thing.

    As a man, I understand the temptation to say what keeps the peace.

    I have done it.

    Sometimes you tell yourself it is wisdom. Sometimes you call it maturity. Sometimes you say you are picking your battles, and there is truth in that. Not everything deserves a war. Not every feeling has to be thrown onto the table the moment it arrives.

    But there is a difference between picking your battles and surrendering your voice.

    That difference matters.

    Because if you keep saying yes when your spirit means no, something begins to happen inside you. Resentment grows quietly. Not all at once. Not loud enough at first to be called by its name. But it grows. It settles behind the eyes. It sits in the chest. It changes the way you listen. It turns love into labor and patience into performance.

    And before long, you are no longer keeping the peace.

    You are disappearing inside it.

    I think about that old phrase some men lived by, especially men from older generations: happy wife, happy life.

    There is something understandable in it, I suppose. A man trying to keep harmony in his home. A man trying not to disturb the person he loves. A man trying to avoid unnecessary storms.

    But taken too far, it becomes dangerous.

    Because your happiness cannot always come at the expense of mine.

    Your comfort cannot require my silence.

    Your peace cannot be built on my dignity being traded away one small lie at a time.

    That is not love.

    That is management.

    That is fear wearing the clothes of devotion.

    A healthy relationship cannot be built on one person constantly swallowing the truth so the other person never has to taste discomfort. Both people have to be willing to hear what is real. Both people have to agree, truly agree, that honesty is not an attack. That a boundary is not a rejection. That communication is not disrespectful simply because it reveals something inconvenient.

    Because love without truth becomes theater.

    Two people smiling as they slowly lie to each other.

    Maybe not lying dramatically. Not betrayal. Not deception with a plan behind it. But the quieter kind of lying. The kind where you say, “I’m fine,” when you are not. The kind where you pretend something does not bother you because you are tired of explaining why it does. The kind where you let someone believe they are loving you well because you have stopped telling them where it hurts.

    And that helps no one.

    Healthy boundaries begin with the understanding that each person still belongs to themselves.

    Even in love.

    Especially in love.

    You can be committed and still have needs.

    You can be kind and still say no.

    You can care deeply and still tell the truth.

    You can want peace and still refuse to purchase it at the cost of your dignity.

    That is the guide, as I understand it.

    Be honest before the silence becomes resentment.

    Communicate before the wound becomes a wall.

    Speak with care, but speak.

    Listen without preparing your defense.

    Make room for the other person’s truth, but do not abandon your own.

    And most of all, do not confuse love with the disappearance of self.

    Real love should not require two people to constantly lie to protect each other’s feelings. Real love should be strong enough to survive honesty. It should be tender enough to handle correction. It should be mature enough to understand that boundaries are not walls meant to keep love out.

    They are doors with locks.

    They teach people how to enter with respect.

    And if both people are willing to tell the truth, listen to the truth, and honor what the truth reveals, then the relationship has a chance to become something deeper than peacekeeping.

    Kyle J. Hayes

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  • Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

    Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?

    Yes, I do

    But I do not believe we will go there because we suddenly became wiser.

    I do not believe we will go because humanity looked up at the night sky, humbled by the smallness of our place in the universe, and decided to become better stewards of existence.

    That would be a beautiful story.

    I don’t think it is the true one.

    I think we will go because Earth is becoming harder to live on.

    Or because something valuable is found there.

    Or because the wealthy decide the future should have a private entrance.

    That sounds harsh, maybe. But history has taught me to be careful with any dream sold as progress when profit is standing somewhere in the room, quiet and smiling.

    Mars will not simply be a new world.

    It will be a mirror.

    And what it reflects may not flatter us.

    We like to imagine colonizing Mars as some grand human achievement. A flag planted in red dust. A bright dome under a strange sky. A child born beneath another planet’s sun. We imagine clean machines, brave scientists, heroic explorers, and the swelling music of destiny.

    But I wonder what life there would actually look like after the cameras are gone.

    Who gets to breathe the cleanest air?

    Who gets the safest shelter?

    Who owns the water?

    Who owns the land beneath a dome they did not build with their own hands?

    Who works outside when the suits fail?

    Who cleans the filters?

    Who repairs the machines?

    Who risks the radiation?

    Who serves the meals?

    Who digs, carries, installs, maintains, and disappears from the official story?

    Because that is the part we often skip.

    Every empire has loved the language of discovery.

    But somebody always does the labor.

    Somebody always pays the cost.

    If we build a world on Mars, I fear it will not be a world of equals. I fear it will become what so much of Earth already is: a place divided between those who own the future and those who are hired to survive inside it.

    The extremely wealthy above.

    The workers below.

    Different planet.

    Same old arrangement.

    Maybe the rich will live in beautiful enclosed cities with artificial gardens, private schools, controlled weather, and windows facing the stars. Maybe they will speak of bravery and innovation while sipping water recycled by systems they did not design, repair, or understand.

    And maybe the poor will live in tighter quarters, in service corridors, in work units, in maintenance bays, in the parts of the colony no brochure ever shows.

    Maybe their bodies will be used as proof that the settlement is possible.

    Maybe their sacrifice will be called an opportunity.

    That is usually how these things go.

    And still, the saddest part to me is this: much of the technology required to make Mars livable could probably teach us how to better care for Earth.

    Closed-loop systems.

    Clean energy.

    Water conservation.

    Food grown in difficult conditions.

    Air filtration.

    Waste reduction.

    Efficient housing.

    All this genius is aimed at surviving in a hostile world. In contrast, the world that has already given us oceans, forests, rain, soil, breath, and morning keeps being treated like something disposable.

    There is something almost tragic in that.

    The human imagination is powerful enough to dream of living on Mars, but not disciplined enough to stop poisoning the place where we already live.

    We can imagine domes on another planet before we can imagine justice on this one.

    We can imagine terraforming Mars before we can imagine repairing Flint, cooling overheated cities, feeding hungry people, or protecting the only atmosphere that has ever held us without a machine.

    That bothers me.

    Because Mars is not home.

    Not yet.

    Maybe not ever in the way Earth is home.

    Mars has no ancestral memory for us. No childhood streets. No grandmother’s kitchen. No rain against the window. No trees bending in summer wind. No soil holds the bones of our people. No rivers that know our names.

    Earth has carried us.

    And we have treated her like a thing to be conquered.

    So what makes us think Mars would be spared?

    That is the question I cannot shake.

    If the same hunger goes with us, the same greed, the same need to own, extract, divide, rank, and consume, then Mars will not be a fresh start.

    It will be a red continuation.

    We will take our flags.

    Our markets.

    Our class systems.

    Our gated communities.

    Our labor exploitation.

    Our myths of progress.

    And we will call it civilization.

    Maybe there will be beauty there, too. I do not want to deny that. There will be people who go for the right reasons. Scientists. Engineers. Dreamers. Workers are trying to build something better than what they left behind. Children born there will look at Earth as a blue light in the sky and wonder what it felt like to stand beneath open rain.

    There will be courage.

    There will be loneliness.

    There will be an invention.

    There will be grief.

    There will be music, eventually. Food, eventually. Rituals, eventually. Some new version of humanity is trying to make meaning under a sky that does not yet belong to memory.

    But unless we change the spirit we carry with us, the colony will inherit the disease of the old world.

    That is what I believe.

    Humans may colonize Mars.

    But the harder question is whether we will deserve to.

    Because leaving Earth is not the same as outgrowing what we did here.

    A rocket can escape gravity.

    It cannot escape greed.

    It cannot escape history.

    It cannot escape the human habit of turning every promised land into property.

    So yes, I believe we may live on Mars one day.

    But I hope, before that happens, we learn to live better here.

    Because if we cannot honor the planet that made us, I do not trust what we will become on the planet that must be manufactured to keep us alive.

    Kyle J. Hayes

    kylehayesblog.com

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